Friday, March 5, 2010

Response to day 683

Respected Brother
Sadar Charan Sparsh

It is great to see that BAFTA did honor Jaya and Abhishek.. a recognition from anywhere is always good.. the one from BAFTA is specially more so..

Your attempt twittering was quite good.. no, no, I do not have any reasons to please you even if some AZ thinks that I do so to degrade his position or standing.. it is all right.. he is allowed what he wishes to think of me, you and him.. I have nothing against anyone.. nor do I have to explain myself unless really required.. threatening someone is out of question especially if someone calls one his elder brother.. he remains as dear to me as he may not understand.. despite that nasty phone call.. and subsequent writings here or in form of the SMSs.. AZ please live in some peace.. I am no competitor not only to you but not to anyone on this earth.. think positive.. that is the key to one's happiness.. if one does not accepts the abuses from another they reflect back onto the same person.. so be very careful when you speak over phone especially if you are also recording it for some reasons.. God bless you..

Brother.. there is no reason for me to take back my comments about the DAE/BRIT incidence.. though I did request AZ to get rid of them.. it is all right.. I haven't reported anything silly.. have valid fears in the light of the times we are living.. the incidence does appear to be simple burglary case and the culprit has been nabbed as well.. yet some reporters had completely wrongly added their own stories to it in the press.. that is nothing new.. yet in such sensitive matters the press must be more careful and maintain some sanctity and keep away from rumors.. I am slightly less scared of the event..
The Hockey team now has to only play for pride.. do not believe in the kind of permutations and combinations that media is building about India's prospect.. though for me.. semi-final is not the end of the road.. an improved world standing at the end of the tournament would be an achievement good enough.. and I must admit here that boys in the blue have been performing to their abilities if not beyond.. that in itself is some consolation.. if India could beat England which I seriously doubt they would probably be standing a chnce to feature in top six Hockey playing nations of the world and that would be no mean achievement by any standards.. so Sandeep, Shivendra, Sreejesh go ahead an d do your best.. I would eve love to see more action from Rajpal, Arjun and Pillay they have been playing good Hockey and even if they fail to win against England it would not matter so much.. we have witnessed a surge of interest in the Hockey and for this we must thank the FIH for holding the prestigious world cup event in New Delhi..

I also read the views of Dr. Manmohan Singh about his dialogue with Pakistan.. I fully support his view.. No, no, I am not a staunch supporter of any political system I only acknowledge a good deed and stand on the matter.. Dr. Singh is perfectly right when he says that maintaining distance has not helped our cause.. maybe the talks could some day initiate a better understanding between 60 year old rivals..

Love Affection and Respect as always
Abhaya Sharma


A Message for Amitabh Ziibbu

AZ.. I may still go and watch the Teen Patti some day.. it is only a matter of one man’s meat may be other man’s poison.. something that could be applied to films as well.. you see we are all different and diverse in our interests and likings.. what I may not have liked may be liked by you or say X.. what the X likes may not be liked by you and me.. do not try to impress upon me or others what is your perception.. it is all right.. do not treat it as complaint.. I know you are a well meaning guy despite my such bad time for some of your previous acts.. I do treat you as a younger brother and thank you for your wishes for Amrit and the other advises…

Dearest Amitabh Ziibbu
Cool down boy!


I do not know where and how have I disturbed you.. rather I had honoured you by asking to get this particular message to be deleted for some of my comments regarding DAE issues that I had aired and I wanted them to be deleted these from the blog as you had also agreed to send a mail to Mr. Bachchan in this regard…in the morning..

If I were not holding a high opinion about you I would not have asked you to help me in this matter.. which you so amicably agreed in the morning..

I have copied the initial message to you so as to apprise you of my opinion about the movie Teen patti when you said you had not liked it and asked me not to go for it.. it is all right if I have hurt you in any way.. I fully apologise to you.. I had used the one man's meat is another man's poison in the context of your opinion.. meaning I would still go and see the movie even if you had different perception.. as I think it would be a great movie ..

This phone call from you half an hour back came quite a bit as a surprise.. I was taken off my feet and see no reason or fail to understand why you talked the way you did..
It is upto you to write and tell brother or anyone for that matter what you think of my comments.. it is your prerogative.. but where did I threaten you.. in what way.. how can you say that I am after spoiling your image in the mind of Mr. Bachchan..

These things are not at all clear to me.. I may please be pardoned if I have unknowingly hurt you.. it was never ever my intention.. in fact it was me who called you yesterday after receiving your well meaning SMS to Amrit for his exams.. I made him to talk to you despite his unwillingness.. he does not like to talk to unknown people.. yet I forced him to talk with you..

That you behave nastily over phone when I was in a meeting at the office so much that I had to leave the meeting and come out to attend your call.. it does not augur too well.. I say this in the sense that I mean well of you.. if you think by recording the conversation as evidence you would book me for wrong reasons you are completely misplaced.. I do not challenge people but you have treated me with such unasked for utterances over phone which you say you have recorded for later use.. aap mahaan hain..what exactly is on your mind.. why do you not talk to me when I have repeatedly called you later.. I have absolutely no intentions of disturbing your relationship with Mr. Bachchan.. I have no reasons to do so.. I have no reasons to come in your way.. I have no reasons to threaten you for whatever you might have tried to rake up during the conversation over phone..

I write all this so that you can calm down and pray what has actually disturbed you to use that kind of language over phone.. come out of all this and behave like a good human being.. I have no reasons to find faults with you.. I have not tried to find faults with you.. threatening is out of question.. I still treat you a younger brother who probably reacts differently to situations.. it is all right.. but please treat this as an answer to your phone call since you are not receiving my call..

Have a nice day and enjoy life rather than getting into unwanted and unfounded issues.. do not think that I am here to malign or make someone’s image.. I am not capable of that at all..

Your well wisher
Abhaya Sharma